An encouragement sent from a sister in another state who is standing strong in the midst of a lot of trials:
When people realize it is the living God you are presenting [and] not some idol that makes them feel good, they are going to turn on you, even people in your own family. There is a great irony here: proclaiming so much love, experiencing so much hate! But don’t quit. Don’t cave in. It is all well worth it in the end. –Jesus (from The Message)
The apostle Paul said “Curses on you if all men speak well of you.” If everyone likes you… if every unsaved or merely religious person in your physical family has absolutely no problems with you… maybe it’s not the Living God you are re-presenting to them at all? “A student is not above his Teacher.” If it’s God we’re truly re-presenting, there should be some people who hate it… and therefore hate the re-presenter. Even from your own physical family. According to Jesus. If not? Then we have to rightly question whether we’re truly representing Him.
It’s interesting that for a lot of people, we feel if we’ve “upset” someone that THAT somehow proves we are “unloving” and unlike Jesus. But in fact, it may actually be the ABSENCE of people being upset with us that proves we’re not really following and properly representing Him. I’m not talking about “provoking people” unnecessarily. LOVE THEM. And then watch in astonishment as they are upset with you and hate you in return. Not everyone responds positively when you try to “snatch them from the fire.” In fact, most don’t.
Remember… It only took 3 years for most people to get so completely fed up with the most loving Man who ever lived, that they eventually slaughtered Him like some farm animal in that short span of time. Isaiah says that by the time they went to put the nails in His hands, He was unrecognizable. :-(